In Terms of Love

Should you give up? Should you hold on? Love is fathomless. It is a mystery.

In relationship, if there is a beginning, there will be always an end. An end that causes sleepless nights to those people feeling unloved by their partners. Could it be possible to have no beginning so that there will be no end? You will just feel you are always in the middle. But no! We could not make it possible for God told us of the beginning of the world and the soon ending of it. Everything changes as the times passes by.

We could explain that love has its origin and how it started but then, we could not still fathom how love works! All people in the world have their own principles in terms of love so better understand instead of blaming them.

There are some confusions love made us and I’ll let you decide what your heart would have to choose:

You’ve been hurt from your past and someone helps you how to cope with it, and you learned to love him. But, there was already someone who owned him in the past. Are you willing to give him up to the person who's fighting to win him back? It would mean of your much sadness and tears! Would you prefer to fight for your love you know by yourself, it’s more than of that “someone” in his past?

Your past love always take a peep every now and then. You’ve been away for so long and you don’t know if he still cares! What will you do? Will you still hope that someday you will meet again and continue your love? Or give up for he might find another one better than you?  

You’re best friends and you don’t know you have fallen in love with each other. Are you willing to tell each other you’re in love although this will be the end of your friendship? Or decide to keep quiet and endure the pain of your silent and secret love?

You’re puzzled how to start a relationship. Which do you refer, learn to love the one around or wait or the right one? You don’t even know if the right one will arrive at the time you have predicted then. Will you still wait to that unpredictable time and person? Will you learn to love the one around?

Would you teach your heart to love the person, who loves you so much? Or still long for the person you truly love since then. The person you’re longing for doesn’t have planned to love you. Would you decide to give yourself a chance to love another one? Would you believe that heart also can be taught to love?

You really love each other and you’d wished it will last forever. How if the world is against it? Would you still continue your relationship and prove to the world that love conquers all? Or give up, for you know everybody would be happy or that? Would you gamble the happiness love brought to you and endure the pain it may result?

You’ve been together for so long. Your relationship was nurtured by test of time and trials. You’ve overcome so many obstacles that come in your way. You thought nothing would separate the bond between you, and you have promised to love each forever. One day, everything has changed. You’d realized you don’t love each other anymore. Is it still healthy to continue the relationship because you have a vow and the memories of it is not worth throwing for? Or would you give freedom to each other to seek for the right love?

Those were just few confusions in love. Sometimes, we don’t know what to follow . We don’t know how to follow things. Sometimes, heart also could think that the mind couldn’t perform as of feeling the emotions heart does. As long as it is in terms of love, heart knows the right and wrong for itself. Whatever problems love brought us, we don’t have to worry. Let the heart decides. How could love be so wrong when it feels so right?