Carefully choose the guy you will date.
Women often ask themselves how will they spot if the man they are dating is not into them. In the dating world, compromising to someone who doesn't deserve your affection is like jumping into the tallest building of nothingness.
You need to be cautious if the guy you are dating is a fisher or a keeper. There are red flags you would possibly see. The following are few signs he is not that into you:
1. Too good to be true. Just like fishing, a fisher will have luscious baits for the fish to have a good catch and so was the guys who only opt to play games. They will initially work on too much to win your heart. Once they had won you, they'll gradually step back.
2. Communicate less. When you are used talking to him often and then out the blue, he detached slowly, that's a red flag. When phone calls become less, you need to start wondering. A guy who is really interested will never stop communicating even in his busy schedule. A text message or a quick phone call will do when he thinks about what you feel. A guy who is in love with his girl will always think how her day goes at work or even at home. He would care about everything she does.
3. Postponement of Visits. When he started to frequently visit you and always on time, he is into you. But for some reasons he stop visiting and spending time with you, there is something going on. A guy who became uninterested to a girl will always find excuses. Few examples of these are: he is crazy busy at work and his time is totally consumed by it; he is going through rough times and that he wouldn't want to affect you with it; he is saying he'll call you as soon as he gets a chance but never happens. When he started acting this way for several weeks and months, he is into something else - something more interesting than you are.
4. You are behind the scene. When your guy doesn't want your relationship be known to other people especially to his family and friends, he might be thinking you wouldn't be enough for him. When you are friends on facebook and you are not allowed to post on his wall or upload your pictures together, it is a warning sign that he's a fisher. A guy who loves you will flaunt you in front of his friends and family. If you are always in secret, he is protecting his image to other women he is also fishing.
5. Woman's instinct. This is a gift for women. When you start thinking negative about your partner with no apparent reason, there is something going on. If in everything he does, you start doubting, he is coming up with other things out of your knowledge. Later, you will be surprised that he wants space from your relationship that will turn into a break up.
Sometimes, when you are head over heels in love with someone, these red flags are often neglected. You ended up getting disappointed and wanted to turn back the time to spot the signs to avoid much heartbreak. There is nothing wrong to love someone dearly but he should be a keeper. Love is a wonderful feeling and that should be shared with someone who can equally show you.
Women often ask themselves how will they spot if the man they are dating is not into them. In the dating world, compromising to someone who doesn't deserve your affection is like jumping into the tallest building of nothingness.
You need to be cautious if the guy you are dating is a fisher or a keeper. There are red flags you would possibly see. The following are few signs he is not that into you:
1. Too good to be true. Just like fishing, a fisher will have luscious baits for the fish to have a good catch and so was the guys who only opt to play games. They will initially work on too much to win your heart. Once they had won you, they'll gradually step back.
2. Communicate less. When you are used talking to him often and then out the blue, he detached slowly, that's a red flag. When phone calls become less, you need to start wondering. A guy who is really interested will never stop communicating even in his busy schedule. A text message or a quick phone call will do when he thinks about what you feel. A guy who is in love with his girl will always think how her day goes at work or even at home. He would care about everything she does.
3. Postponement of Visits. When he started to frequently visit you and always on time, he is into you. But for some reasons he stop visiting and spending time with you, there is something going on. A guy who became uninterested to a girl will always find excuses. Few examples of these are: he is crazy busy at work and his time is totally consumed by it; he is going through rough times and that he wouldn't want to affect you with it; he is saying he'll call you as soon as he gets a chance but never happens. When he started acting this way for several weeks and months, he is into something else - something more interesting than you are.
4. You are behind the scene. When your guy doesn't want your relationship be known to other people especially to his family and friends, he might be thinking you wouldn't be enough for him. When you are friends on facebook and you are not allowed to post on his wall or upload your pictures together, it is a warning sign that he's a fisher. A guy who loves you will flaunt you in front of his friends and family. If you are always in secret, he is protecting his image to other women he is also fishing.
5. Woman's instinct. This is a gift for women. When you start thinking negative about your partner with no apparent reason, there is something going on. If in everything he does, you start doubting, he is coming up with other things out of your knowledge. Later, you will be surprised that he wants space from your relationship that will turn into a break up.
Sometimes, when you are head over heels in love with someone, these red flags are often neglected. You ended up getting disappointed and wanted to turn back the time to spot the signs to avoid much heartbreak. There is nothing wrong to love someone dearly but he should be a keeper. Love is a wonderful feeling and that should be shared with someone who can equally show you.
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